MY Dear Friend here is a letter telling you a little more about myself allso its long, so get a cup of coffee or tea and relax,lol ,I stand 6ft4/250/hazel eyes/gray hair/ maybeless cut/ ,here are a few things about myself ,hope that they do not scare you,I must allso tell you I write as well,victorian erotic ,,I collect a lot of stuff,,I have a large collection of bears, waterglobes(snowballs)I read a lot, I love to treat my lovers to oil rub downs in scented oils, of roses ,give them baths in bubbles as they sip a glass of wine,fix them a homecooked meal, and so forth,the weather has turned cool, it has tried to rain most of the week as to i would love to have a soulmate or soulmates to share my fireplace with me, I live in a a older home , I love letter writing as in this letter,I should say email but I still love to write letters,, ! but do drink socially. I'm also intelligent, educated, energetic, friendly, sincere and honest.I enjoy good conversation, listening and meeting new people and have a pretty good sense of humor:a romantic victorian male who seeks the keeper of my soul . I would like to meet a true companion to become good friends and who would be open to sharing his passion with me when the time and mood is right. If the friendship turns a corner and realizes the potential to progress to something more serious, I would be very open to progressing with it and doing what is right for both of us.Sexually, I believe that lovemaking is intimate and very personal and should be consensual shared. I don't "have sex". Rather, I prefer to "make love". I'm very passionate and live for the first kiss, hug and tight embrace,I seek a soul keeper, one who will have my soul with in his hands,the keeper will know himself by the way he seeks out in the night ,to find his mate, the books and music that seem! to not have the anwsers to his search,the face that is never there within their dreams,sight with sight yet not,who has waited the time for his soul to seek out his mate,he looks for the one to share roses and wine, or a good old horror film,a bubble bath of scented oils,walks in the woods or on a lonely beach,camping,to the simple things like collecting teddybears,old and new things,race and age are not something i look at,the heart is the only thing, and the soul which is within it,as long as there is love with in that soul nothing matters,i seek the one the who tossed and turn with in their sleep,I kiss the past good by and the fears of the future will be no longer I feel that this tells you that even if romantic i 'am willing to try new things,time will tell,, BLESSED BE MARTY(If you like what you have seen here email me (Martybehr@aol.com ) will anwser all letters OH ok emails